Tuesday, November 29, 2011

My Birthday Sharing submitted by IK

My Birthday Sharing

The many contradictions in our lives - such as being home while feeling homeless, being busy while feeling bored, being popular while feeling lonely, being believers while feeling many doubts - can frustrate, irritate, and even discourage us. They make us feel that we are never fully present. Every door that opens for us makes us see how many more doors are closed. But there is another response. These same contradictions can bring us into touch with a deeper longing for the fulfillment of a desire that lives beneath all desires and that only God can satisfy. Contradictions, thus understood, create the friction that can help us move toward God.

Henri J. M. Nouwen
Nouwen Centre
from "Bread for the Journey"

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Our Lives, Sowing Times

Our short lives on earth are sowing time.  If there were no resurrection of the dead, everything we live on earth would come to nothing.  How can we believe in a God who loves us unconditionally if all the joys and pains of our lives are in vain, vanishing in the earth with our mortal flesh and bones?  Because God loves us unconditionally, from eternity to eternity, God cannot allow our bodies - the same as that in which Jesus, his Son and our savior, appeared to us - to be lost in final destruction.

No, life on earth is the time when the seeds of the risen body are planted.  Paul says:  "What is sown is perishable, but what is raised is imperishable; what is sown is contemptible but what is raised is glorious; what is sown is weak, but what is raised is powerful; what is sown is a natural body, and what is raised is a spiritual body" (1 Corinthians 15:42-44).  This wonderful knowledge that nothing we live in our bodies is lived in vain holds a call for us to live every moment as a seed of eternity.

The wonderful knowledge, that nothing we live in our body is lived in vain, holds a call for us to live every moment as a seed of eternity.

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FromDaily Meditation
Tuesday November 29, 2011
Henri Nouwen Society

Thursday, November 17, 2011

Just to share .......... from Jane



Just to Share ….
(from BSF)


·       CHRIST  +  nothing  = SALVATION
·       Old Testament reveals Jesus, New Testament reveals God (through Jesus).
·       Fearing people (rather than God) is a dangerous/deadly trap.
·       After you have discovered that you are in the wrong, be slow to defend but quick to change.



Do you agree/disagree?
Do you have Bible verses to support?

Wednesday, October 26, 2011

Disturb us, Lord - a prayer by Francis Drake


Disturb us, Lord, when
We are too pleased with ourselves,
When our dreams have come true
Because we dreamed too little,
When we arrived safely
Because we sailed too close to the shore.

Disturb us, Lord, when
With the abundance of things we possess
We have lost our thirst
For the waters of life;
Having fallen in love with life,
We have ceased to dream of eternity
And in our efforts to build a new earth,
We have allowed our vision
Of the new Heaven to dim.

Disturb us, Lord, to dare more boldly,
To venture on wilder seas
Where storms will show Your mastery;
Where losing sight of land,
We shall find the stars.

We ask you to push back
The horizons of our hopes;
And to push back the future
In strength, courage, hope, and love.

This we ask in the name of our Captain,
Who is Jesus Christ.
Disturb us, Lord - a prayer by Francis Drake
As you think about what is ahead of you, here's a prayer worth memorizing.
It's author, Sir Francis Drake, an adventurer, wrote it as he departed to the west coast of South America.

Submitted by Jane

Sunday, October 2, 2011

Groundhog Day


CLASSICS OF OUR TIMES II
GROUNDHOG DAY
 Raymond Li

February 2nd is Groundhog Day. According to the folklore, if the groundhog comes out from hiding and becomes afraid of its own shadow, 6 more weeks of winter are to be expected. Many townships over North America and Europe celebrate this day with festivities but none is as grand as the one held in Punxsutawney, Pennsylvania.

Phil Connors, the television weatherman played by Bill Murray in the 1993 movie “Groundhog Day”, was given the assignment to cover the Groundhog Day at Punxsutawney for the 3rd time in as many years.

Phil was egocentric and miserable. His egocentricity was in fact an overcompensation of the disdain he has for his life. He turned a potentially fun assignment into a tedious chore, and projected his frustration uninhibitedly towards his colleagues, cameraman Larry and their producer Rita, played by Andie MacDowell.

The movie did not explain why Phil became that way, so we, the audiences, are not swayed to sympathize with him. In many ways, Phil reminds us of that “someone” whom most of us would have the misfortune of running into one time or another in our lives, someone we dislike and tend to avoid 

On their way home after covering the Groundhog Day, the news crew had to be turned back to town; the highway was closed due to a snow storm. Disappointed, Phil went about his miserable sulky way that evening. He woke up the next morning to the same radio broadcasting as the day before, and soon realized he was reliving yesterday all over again.

This was when Phil went into shock while we lift off on a fantasy ride in one of the slickest movie of all times.

“Groundhog Day” is ranked by the American Film Institute as the 34th funniest movie from their list of 100, and hailed by the Writers’ Guild of America as having the 27th best ever written screenplay out of a prestigious company of 101. It is also honoured by US National Film Registry in 2006 as being “culturally, historically and aesthetically significant”. This is no small feat for a film that had completely flown under the radar at the 1993 Oscar nomination dominated by blockbusters like “Schindler’s List” and “Jurassic Park”.

Soon after the movie came out, the phrase “groundhog day” was fondly adopted by the US military to depict their tedious, repetitive and often unpleasant assignments. Nowadays, “groundhog day” is commonly used “…as a reference to an unpleasant situation that continuously repeats, or seems to” (Wikipedia). 

Imagine, just imagine, that you live the same day over and over again, nothing is changed until you intervene, but only for a day. People you were nasty to cannot remember what was done to them. People you are nice to will draw a blank look when they see you again tomorrow. All memories are wiped clean at the start of everyday except for yours, and you have to carry all the accumulated pains and regrets into eternity. Things you hold dear to your heart would not last for more than 24 hours, and even when you have committed suicide, you will still wake up to the same ode, same ode with no hope of escaping the rut. Tell me, if this is not the ultimate punishment, what is?  

That was the movie’s version of “groundhog day”. However, the movie provided Phil with an escape clause. When he learnt to become a more caring and better person, not only he won the heart of Rita, the producer whom he initially tried to take advantage of but eventually fell in love with, he was also able to break the curse of that ultimate punishment.

The movie never spelled out how long it took for Phil to get things right. Director Harold Ramis mentioned in an interview that the script called for a span of 10 years, and he dropped a hint here and there to indicate the length of this span. 

That means Phil had relived the same day over and over 3650 times!

Is it possible for anyone to become entangled with the same unpleasant situation(s) over and over for 10 long years in real life?

I will walk away first! Many will say, but having to walk away from every unpleasant entanglement is just like living a version of “groundhog day”. The vicious cycle has to be stopped.

Henri Nouwen mentioned in his book “The return of the Prodigal Son” that he constantly fell back into an old trap of self indulgence even before he became aware of it (P. 41). He also mentioned that out of the many voices in his realm of consciousness, he learnt to listen only to that one voice that whispered “my beloved son”.

Henri recognized that a significant percentage of unhappiness and regrets are self-inflicted. Unless we are able to look into ourselves without prejudice and indulgence, we may never be able to reconcile any recurring concern that foster the vicious cycle of “groundhog day”.

Introspection requires a set of references. For Christians, they are the calling of our Heavenly Father, as depicted by Henri, and the teachings of the Holy Bible. Reconciliation is the key to activate that escape clause, just like in the movie, to eliminate “groundhog day” once and for all.
 The skills we learn through reconciliation are quite transferable. Should we be confronted with unforeseen trial and tribulation, if God so desires; these skills will be invaluable to our mental and spiritual survival.

It is a real bonus to be able to contemplate about spiritual issues after watching an entertaining movie. If you have not seen “Groundhog Day”, I urge you to see it. If you have seen it a while ago, watch it again and see if you would feel differently.

By the way, I want to thank Jane for introducing the book “The Return of the Prodigal Son” to me, and I do not receive any royalty on the copyright of the movie.